Adam Dzialo

Adam Dzialo
Our son, Adam Dzialo, age 30
Showing posts with label uncomfortable with disabled. Show all posts
Showing posts with label uncomfortable with disabled. Show all posts

Thursday, August 18, 2011

"I'm Uncomfortable Around Disabled People..."


     Comments abound when people are questioned as to why Adam is not in the their lives?  Frequently, I hear, "I'm not comfortable....."
     We all have disabilities but some disabilities are not obvious to casual observers.
      We do not avoid you because of your more subtle disabilities.  I become very angry when people avoid my son because of their personal discomfort!  This response eats at my core and brings out an atomic response.


Adam at his Last ABR Evaluation


        Fuck you and get over it!! Get over your discomfort, now!  It's not my job to make you comfortable; it's not my job to make my kid visually appealing to you; it's not my job to make my kid walk and talk like you...It's not my job to blow sunshine up your ass!  Simply, love him as a child of the universe, perfect in all ways important or run and hide in your cave of delusion about how things should be!  Consider him as important as you consider yourself and relate to him out of a belief in the perfection of all humanity.  If you can't; stay far, far away!  Your energy can destroy our harmony and equanimity.


       The internet and blogging world is just a modern day incarnation of a huge smudge stick...smudging (see previous post) will release subtle negative energy to dissipate.  Releasing your anger and rage through cyberspace will dissipate it and release its bonds which bind you.  Releasing is freeing...releasing will make it stick to whatever object it chooses, not you nor your kid nor your home.


        Send your ills into the black hole of cyberspace.

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